Deutina Idisi, a global tech leader and empowerment coach, is on a mission to help Christian women break free from cultural expectations and rediscover their true identity through the transformative power of TinaTalks™.
A Journey of Transformation: From Boardrooms to Empowerment
As the boardroom lights dimmed and the last meeting ended, Deutina Idisi, known to the world as TinaTalks™, found herself at a crossroads. She has achieved success in the high-stakes world of global tech, making waves as a Global Product Manager in Consumer Data Platforms at Fortune 500 companies. Her name was synonymous with innovation, leadership, and digital transformation. Yet, deep inside, something was missing.
Despite her professional accomplishments, Deutina struggled with what she calls the 3Ms—the Cultural Benchmarks of Womanhood: Marriage, Motherhood, and Milestones. A fractured marriage, delayed motherhood, and the relentless pressure of career achievement left her quietly grieving unmet expectations.
This was more than the stress of balancing work and life; it was the weight of the Shadow Code, the hidden programming of cultural expectations and counterfeit crowns that distort a woman’s true worth.
It was in this crucible that TinaTalks was born, not just as a coaching platform, but as a movement for women like Deutina: ambitious, faith-driven, yet tired of being measured by timelines and titles rather than truth.
Her mission became clear: to empower Christian women burdened by expectations to reclaim their identity and live free, dismantling the Shadow Code™ and breaking the myths that have long tied their worth to crowns they were never meant to carry.
The Power of the 5G Journey to Becoming™
The creation of TinaTalks™ was not a spontaneous idea. It was the culmination of Deutina’s own lived experiences — the intersection of faith, leadership, and deep personal struggle. In her memoir, Five Good Years, she reflects on how those pivotal years between thirty and thirty-five became a crucible: the hopes of motherhood, the demands of a career, and the weight of cultural expectations all collided at once.
It is here that the Matriarchal Myth takes its sharpest form, the belief that a woman’s worth is measured by three crowns: marriage, motherhood, and milestones. For Deutina, this meant grappling with the grief of a fractured marriage, delayed motherhood, and the relentless pursuit of success in her career. She once hoped these pillars would hold her, protect her and give her worth. Instead, they crumbled like a house of cards: betrayal in marriage, the aching silence of infertility, and burnout draining every milestone of joy. What appeared to be a foundation was revealed to be scaffolding. Yet even in the rubble, she discovered something: life-altering collapse can be the doorway to design.
From journal entries grew a memoir, and from that memoir came a blueprint. This duality of corporate strategist and faith-rooted coach became the bedrock of her signature framework: the 5G Journey to Becoming™. The five transformative steps: Ground, Grieve, Grow, Grit, and Glow reflect the very process that helped her reset when everything seemed to be out of alignment.
“I know what it means to meet every milestone society celebrates and still whisper, ‘Is this all?’ That’s why I created TinaTalks™, to help women find freedom beyond timelines and titles,” Deutina shares.
Through this framework, TinaTalks™ guides women on their own journey of becoming, helping them confront limiting beliefs, dismantle the Shadow Code, and uncover their true worth, not through society’s measures, but through their authentic selves.
The 5G Journey to Becoming™ is designed to empower women to rebuild on a foundation of faith, clarity, and resilience. It is more than theory; it is lived practice. And through practical tools like the Identity Audit Toolkit and the Identity 360 Blueprint, Deutina has made this restoration process accessible to women everywhere.
Reaching Global Audiences: A Unique Blend of Faith and Strategy
TinaTalks™ stands out due to its unique blend of global corporate strategy, personal empowerment, and faith-rooted guidance. As a tech leader, Deutina is not just another empowerment coach; she is a global product manager who has shaped digital transformations at a Fortune 500 level. This unique combination of high-stakes leadership and identity-centred coaching allows her to guide women with the same strategic mindset she uses to lead large-scale digital projects.
Unlike most coaches who speak from theory alone, Deutina’s methods are deeply rooted in her own lived experiences. Having survived burnout, navigated the collapse of the 3Ms, and rewritten her story after the Shadow Code tried to define her, she understands the struggles of her audience. Her authenticity enables her to connect with women on a personal level, meeting them where they are in their journey.
Women from diverse backgrounds, whether they are navigating corporate boardrooms, managing households, or exploring their faith within faith communities, have embraced Deutina’s work and framework. TinaTalks™ is a movement that empowers all women, regardless of their circumstances or cultural context.
One of her clients shares:
“Tina helped me realise that the titles I was chasing at work had become my identity. I was burned out, always striving, never satisfied. Her Identity Audit Toolkit revealed the lies I had built my life on and provided a blueprint for balance. Today, I lead from a place of clarity and peace. I’m thriving at work and at home.”
Recognized as the Best Christian Women’s Empowerment Coach in the United Kingdom of 2025
Deutina Idisi has earned the distinguished title of “Best Christian Women’s Empowerment Coach in the United Kingdom of 2025” from EvergreenAwards.com, a highly respected authority in the coaching industry. This recognition underscores her profound impact on the personal growth and transformation of Christian women, thanks to her unique approach, including the transformative 5G Journey to Becoming. Through her dedicated work, Deutina has become a guiding light, helping women rediscover their true potential and break free from the limitations imposed by societal norms.
The Movement Grows: Empowering Women Worldwide
What sets TinaTalks™ apart from other empowerment programs is its focus on authenticity, vulnerability, and global perspective. Deutina’s Nigerian heritage, combined with her experience as a UK-based tech leader, provides her with a unique perspective on the identity struggles faced by women across cultures.
Her story is not the only lens through which she sees. Over years of coaching, mentoring, and journeying alongside women, she has witnessed the same ache across the spectrum. Some achieve every milestone- marriage, motherhood and career yet quietly confess they still feel hollow. Others grasp only part of those milestones, or none at all, and carry the shame of being “behind.” What struck her was not the difference between them, but the sameness underneath: identity fractured by culture’s crowns, scaffolding mistaken for foundation, milestones mistaken for meaning.
TinaTalks™ is more than a coaching platform; it is a movement born from memoir. What began as journal entries became Five Good Years. What started as a means of survival became a blueprint for success. Building on the foundation of Five Good Years, Deutina is currently working on her next book, Daughter by Design™. This intensely personal and faith-rooted exploration continues the journey of identity restoration. Set to release soon, it unpacks the Shadow Code, dismantles counterfeit crowns and guides women toward a life designed, not defined. Reminding them that they are, and have always been, daughters by design.
Looking to the Future: A Global Empowerment Platform
The future of TinaTalks™ is expansive. Deutina’s vision is to transform TinaTalks™ into a global empowerment platform. This vision includes events, workshops, digital toolkits, and community spaces that provide women worldwide with the tools they need to break free from the limiting narratives that have defined their worth for too long.
Her work continues to inspire women to take control of their identities and live boldly. Through her Identity 360 Blueprint and the transformative 5G Journey to Becoming™, TinaTalks™ is empowering women to live lives of clarity, courage, and conviction.
Reclaim Your Identity Today
Reclaim Your Identity TodayTinaTalks™ is more than just a brand; it is a call to action for women who are ready to take charge of their identity. It’s for those who are prepared to step out from under the societal expectations and the weight of titles and milestones. With Deutina Idisi at the helm, this movement offers women a path to self-empowerment that is grounded in faith and lived experience.
My mission is simple: to dismantle the myths that bind women and to remind them, ‘You are not your timelines, titles, or trials. You are Daughter, by design,” says Deutina.
If you’re a woman ready to reclaim your identity and live freely, TinaTalks™ offers a roadmap. From Deutina’s tools and frameworks to the Daughter by Design™ book, this is your invitation to begin your transformation.
Visit Deutina’s Website to learn more about how you can start your own journey toward reclaiming your true identity.
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