Escapegoats Anonymous is hosting a unique Christmas event that celebrates estranged families and creates a safe space for healing, connection, and empowerment.
A New Kind of Christmas Celebration: For Those Who Have Walked Away from Toxic Family
For many, the holiday season is a time for joy, family, and celebration. But for some, the holidays can bring up painful memories of toxic, abusive, or unhealthy family dynamics. For these individuals, Christmas might be a reminder of the estrangement or loss they’ve experienced.
Bella Devorah, the founder of Escapegoats Anonymous, knows these feelings well. After walking away from her own toxic family environment, Bella—a trained neuroscience coach—made it her mission to help others in similar situations. She founded Escapegoats Anonymous to create a supportive community for those who have gone no-contact with their families, providing a safe space for survivors of family scapegoating abuse.
This year, Bella and Escapegoats Anonymous are offering a refreshing take on holiday gatherings with their first-ever online Christmas celebration—I Made My Family Disappear! On Christmas Day, the group will host an event filled with laughter, games, and, most importantly, a sense of belonging. The celebration is designed to offer joy and healing to those estranged from their families, acknowledging the strength it takes to walk away from harmful relationships.
Escapegoats Anonymous: A Safe Haven for Survivors of Family Scapegoating
Escapegoats Anonymous is not just another support group—it’s a lifeline for individuals who have been cast out of their families or have had to walk away for their own well-being. Founded by Bella Devorah, who herself is a survivor of family scapegoating abuse, the group is structured similarly to Alcoholics Anonymous, offering an anonymous, safe, and supportive space for survivors to share their experiences and healing journeys.
Bella’s personal story mirrors the struggles faced by many of the group’s members. She has experienced the devastation of emotional and psychological abuse and the trauma of being scapegoated by a dysfunctional family system. This experience eventually led her to go no-contact with her family and even change her name to protect her immediate family.
Despite the challenges, Bella’s journey is one of transformation. As a trained neuroscience coach, she helps others reframe the survival skills they developed in toxic environments and apply them to their personal and professional lives. What might have once been seen as “flaws” are now recognized as powerful leadership traits. The critical thinking and resilience survivors cultivated in their abusive environments are the very qualities that make them unstoppable in the real world.
A Christmas Celebration Like No Other
This Christmas, Escapegoats Anonymous is offering something unexpected: a fun, lighthearted event designed for those who have struggled with family estrangement. The I Made My Family Disappear! Christmas Day party is a playful yet deeply meaningful gathering for those who have made the difficult decision to cut ties with toxic family members.
The event, set for 9 PM GMT (4 PM EST / 1 PM PST), will include festive games and prizes with a unique twist. Participants can enjoy games like “Pin the Tail on the Flying Monkey,” “Blame Game Bingo,” and “No-Contact Confession Circle.” The goal is not only to entertain but to provide a space for healing, connection, and community for those who often feel isolated or misunderstood during the holiday season.
“Holiday gatherings can be especially hard for those who’ve had to make the difficult decision to walk away from family,” says Bella. “But this event is our way of saying, ‘You are not alone. You are seen, and you are celebrated.'”
Why This Event Matters: Reclaiming the Holidays for Survivors
For those estranged from their families, Christmas can be a painful reminder of what they no longer have. But Escapegoats Anonymous is flipping the script on this narrative. This event is about building a found family, where individuals are no longer defined by the toxic relationships they’ve left behind, but by their strength and resilience. It’s about celebrating those who have found the courage to walk away and create a space where healing and empowerment can thrive.
In addition to the fun and games, the event will offer survivors an opportunity to reflect on their journeys, share their personal stories, and support one another. As Bella emphasizes, the characteristics developed during trauma—resilience, critical thinking, and strategic planning—are the very qualities that make survivors leaders in their own lives. At Escapegoats Anonymous, these survival skills are reframed into core leadership abilities.
What Sets Escapegoats Anonymous Apart: Celebrating Strength and Independence
Escapegoats Anonymous is more than just a group—it’s a movement. Unlike many support groups, it provides more than validation; it offers tools for personal growth and leadership development. The group’s unique blend of neuroscience coaching and community support helps members move beyond surviving their circumstances to thriving in their lives. They learn to reframe their painful experiences into a narrative of empowerment and strength.
The group also operates with a deep understanding of the stigma and shame often associated with going no-contact with family. For many people, this is not just a choice but a life-saving decision. Escapegoats Anonymous offers a space where estranged individuals can heal without judgment, providing support for those who have had their choices misunderstood or dismissed by the broader society.
Join the Celebration: Be Part of the Healing Journey
The I Made My Family Disappear! online Christmas party is an opportunity to join a community of like-minded individuals who understand the pain, strength, and joy of healing after family estrangement. Tickets for the event are £30, with free spaces available upon request for those experiencing financial hardship. No one is ever turned away for lack of funds.
The event promises to be a celebration of freedom, healing, and connection—a true reflection of what Escapegoats Anonymous stands for. Whether you are a long-time member or someone considering joining, the party is a chance to step into a community where you are seen, heard, and celebrated for who you are.
For more information or to RSVP, visit Escapegoats Anonymous or Eventbrite.
